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There's been a huge
emphasis on trust today.

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How much trust do
you have in yourself?

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I have two great quotes here.

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The first one leans
more towards trust

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and trusting in
yourself and in others.

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The first one is
Proverbs 3:5 to 6.

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Trust in the Lord
with all your heart,

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and do not lean towards
your own understanding.

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In all your acknowledgements,
trust in Him.

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The next quote, which I
wanted to pass on to you,

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which I feel like you should
definitely acknowledge,

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is one from our beloved Richard
and his dog, Richard II.

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He was a magnificent person.

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He was a pillar
of our community.

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He was a member of
our congregation.

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Also, he was a wonderful
soul and being, we lost him.

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This quote reminded me of him.

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It's from Mark 10, verse 52.

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Go, said Jesus, your
faith has healed you.

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Immediately he
received his sight

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and followed Jesus
along the road.

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So I'm gonna say, I'm gonna
put an end to today's service.

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So what's troubling you?

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I'm sorry that neither of us

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have officially
told you in person,

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but I'm assuming that
you've heard about

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Jamal's condition by now.

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Yes, I am truly sorry
to hear the news.

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I wasn't too sure if
you were comfortable

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sharing the information
with me, so I,

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but look, I want you to know
that we're here for you.

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The church is here for
you, for the both of you.

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These days have been officially
numbered for a while now.

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And I never knew that I'd
get to this situation.

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I just, I don't, I'm finding
it hard to understand

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why this is happening to us.

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You know, I strive to
follow God's commandments.

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I really try to put
people before myself.

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I work so hard in this church.

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Destiny, look, I and everyone
knows how selfless you are,

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and I'm really sorry to hear

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this is happening to
both you and Jamal.

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It's really unfair,
really unfair,

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but, like, I need you to know

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that whatever the circumstance,

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we're gonna be here for you.

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We're gonna be here
for the both of you.

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Look, God loves you.

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How can you say that?

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How can you say that, Darius?

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If God loved us both,

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he would not let Jamal
suffer like this.

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I mean, is He
punishing us, is He?

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No, no, he's not.

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That's not the
case I promise you.

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Look, I know it's hard
and you're in pain,

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and there's gonna be
elements and times of sorrow.

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They tend to go hand in
hand in times like this.

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Look, God has a plan for
each and every one of us,

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but sometimes that plan is
hard to understand, you know?

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He's not punishing you,
like, I promise you that.

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I feel.

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It just feels so hard,

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so hard to keep a brave face,

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to say hello, good
morning to everyone

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like nothing is happening in
my life that's just so hard.

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I wasn't gonna say
anything, but, you know, I,

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you know, I lost my
daughter a few years back,

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bone cancer.

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I didn't know how I'd be
able to get through it.

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I'm so sorry.

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We lost her,

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but I feel that we,

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really we didn't really
lose her, did we?

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I mean, she's
still here with us.

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She's still looking
down on us, isn't she?

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Is she?

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She is.

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I don't know.

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I want my husband to be here
with me in the physical,

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not in heaven,

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or in some other place
where I can't touch him.

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We've had such a
wonderful life together.

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And this is just, it's
just finishing too soon.

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I just, I really can't
understand what's happening.

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I really feel like I
need some answers now.

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You'll never have
all the answers.

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Why not?

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Why?

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You'll never have
all the answers.

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I know it's hard,

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but even in our most
difficult and darkest moments,

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you can still find
strength and hope,

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even from the most
challenging circumstances.

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Where, where can I
find strength and hope?

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Like I said, we're here for
you and you're not alone.

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You have the church.

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The church has got your
back, and you have Jesus.

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And look, the Bible is just
a page turn away, you know?

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And alongside that, regardless
of what might happen,

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or might come your way,

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that at least we know
that Jamal he's gonna,

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Jamal will be at peace soon.

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I don't wanna hear that.

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And no matter what happens,

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whatever comes your way,
Jamal will always be with you.

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I'm sorry, Darius.

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Maybe I'm just losing
my faith a little bit.

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These are just words.

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They're not actually helping me.

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I thought if I came
here, you could help me.

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You could save him,
you could, you could.

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It's hard to see right now.

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I understand, I do.

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I understand, I think.

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Try and keep the faith.

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It's not gonna be easy.

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It's gonna be, it's
not gonna be easy.

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Look,

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how about you go back and
make sure Jamal's okay?

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We can have more of a chat
when I see you later on.

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Okay.

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Yeah?

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And remember, God
will never leave you.

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Hi.

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Hi.

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You okay?

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Did you enjoy the service?

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Yeah, it was lovely.

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How are you feeling?

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I'm okay, darling.

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While you were in
church with Darius,

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I was just reading up
more on what to expect

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with lung cancer.

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Just trying to
process everything.

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By the way, how was
the heart to heart?

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You know, the usual.

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Is there anything
more I could do?

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No.

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You're perfect just
the way you are.

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We're gonna fight this,

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and we're with you
every step of the way.

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I need to speak with
you about something

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really important to me.

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What do you mean?

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You know how I'm always
speaking about the plan,

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the plan that God has for me.

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Well, now that that plan
is coming to a close,

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I've been thinking about what
it means for you afterwards.

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Don't talk like that, Jamal.

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You know I have faith

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and it's gonna carry me
through this situation, okay?

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Why do I get the sense that,

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that.

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Look, I'm not losing hope.

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And you're not alone in this.

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Look, we can continue
to pray together,

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and just ask God for guidance.

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I've been speaking to
people and, you know,

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leading up on earth

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what happens in the
worst case scenario?

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- Are you okay?
- Yeah, thank you.

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Jamal, sweetie, let me put
some pillows under you.

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Make you more comfortable.

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Thank you.

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See how that is.

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Is that better?

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Much better.

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Good.

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Thank you.

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Okay, I'm gonna
go get your meds.

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I'll bring you some water too.

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Destiny.

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Would you hand me
my Bible please?

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Of course.

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Thank you.

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And if you've got any rum,
would you bring that too?

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Even though I walk through
the darkest of valleys,

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I will fear no evil
for you are with me.

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Your rod and your
staff, they comfort me.

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Psalm 23, verse four.

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Beautiful.

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Come on, it's time
to take your meds.

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You weren't able to
find that rum, were you?

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Are you feeling all right?

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About as well as
could be expected.

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Although I wish I were in
the Jamaican sun right now.

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Me too.

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All right, honey, you
got some rest now, okay?

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Oh, do you know who I saw
the other day, I saw Sally.

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Do you remember Sally?

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We used to go to
school together.

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She was that girl

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that we used to have so
many arguments at school.

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Do you remember her?

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I'm sure you do.

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Beautiful.

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I was wearing those square shoes

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and she was just, like,
insulting my shoes all the time.

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I'm sure I told you
the story before,

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but I'm gonna tell you again
'cause she just reminded me.

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So anyway, she used to wear

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these really skinny
stiletto shoes.

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And I like my big square heels.

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And we were going out one night

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and she got her stiletto
heel stuck in the escalator,

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and it closed the
escalator down.

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I mean, I was kind of happy
because I was off the escalator,

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but she was stuck in it.

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Are you hungry?

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Jamal?

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Jamal?

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Jamal?

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So, anyway,

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her shoe got absolutely stuck,

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but the escalator didn't stop.

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Her heel just got ripped.

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And I was, I was already
out of the escalator.

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My shoes were fine and
I was laughing at her.

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Hey sis.

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Good morning, how's
it going down there?

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It's about as busy as the shop.

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Hi. How are you?

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I'm okay, how are you?

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Not too good.

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Hey mom.

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Good morning

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Uncle, I've got
something to show you.

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What you got there big man?

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Good morning.

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How are you?

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I'm good, thanks, I'm Carly Rae.

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Could I get you something?

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I'm Angel, can we
get you something?

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Do you mind if I
leave these here?

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Oh, what are they?

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They're flyers for
the church I follow.

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No, sorry, no religious
literature here.

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Do you mind if I ask why not?

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It's none of your business.

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Destiny.

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All our church is doing,

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it's offering flyers for people
going through hard times.

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We just wanna help.

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And these flyers may
give people contacts

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for a place that can help them.

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Nothing provocative.

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I appreciate your reasons,

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but I don't want to
associate with any church.

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I don't want my customers
to feel pressurized

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or uncomfortable, so no.

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I understand.

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We just wanna help
people in need.

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I'm sorry, um?

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Carly Rae.

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I'm sorry, Carly Rae, but
my answer is still a no.

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This is a secular coffee shop
and I wanna keep it that way.

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I understand, thank
you for your time.

260
00:20:47,141 --> 00:20:47,974
Thank you.

261
00:20:47,975 --> 00:20:49,724
Thanks.

262
00:20:52,610 --> 00:20:55,299
Wasn't very friendly, was it?

263
00:20:55,300 --> 00:20:56,133
Uh-hum.

264
00:20:56,134 --> 00:20:58,259
That's great sales strategy
you've hit on there.

265
00:20:58,260 --> 00:21:00,470
Let's be rude to
everyone who comes in.

266
00:21:00,471 --> 00:21:04,038
You're bound to sell tons
of coffee that way, hmm?

267
00:21:04,039 --> 00:21:06,998
I just wanna let everyone
know where we stand, Angel.

268
00:21:06,999 --> 00:21:10,082
I don't wanna be
dishonest to anyone.

269
00:21:11,860 --> 00:21:13,307
Okay.

270
00:21:13,308 --> 00:21:16,528
It's time, I've got
to go pick her up.

271
00:21:16,529 --> 00:21:18,612
Always a royal welcome.

272
00:21:23,796 --> 00:21:24,796
Oh.

273
00:21:31,765 --> 00:21:34,322
Sis, if you can spare a minute,

274
00:21:34,323 --> 00:21:37,295
can we get some coffee
over here please?

275
00:21:37,296 --> 00:21:40,883
I should start charging
you guys for your coffees.

276
00:21:40,884 --> 00:21:43,634
Hey, I don't even drink coffee.

277
00:21:47,554 --> 00:21:51,554
So, how was that party
you went to last night?

278
00:21:53,485 --> 00:21:55,284
It was okay, I thought it
was gonna be fancy dress,

279
00:21:55,285 --> 00:21:59,123
but it turned out to be a
smart casual kind of thing.

280
00:21:59,124 --> 00:22:02,145
What monstrosity did you
show up in this time?

281
00:22:02,146 --> 00:22:06,479
You looked like the Black
Abraham Lincoln last time.

282
00:22:07,536 --> 00:22:09,564
You're just jealous.

283
00:22:09,565 --> 00:22:11,363
I don't think I went too
overboard this time around.

284
00:22:11,364 --> 00:22:15,361
I borrowed Terry's football
Premier League outfit.

285
00:22:15,362 --> 00:22:17,361
Oh, that's not
embarrassing at all.

286
00:22:17,362 --> 00:22:18,362
It's not?

287
00:22:19,962 --> 00:22:22,620
Although, I wonder where
the shorts went off to

288
00:22:22,621 --> 00:22:24,009
'cause I think one of
the guests stole it,

289
00:22:24,010 --> 00:22:25,927
and I have no idea who.

290
00:22:26,859 --> 00:22:30,969
I know Terry's gonna
flip when he finds out.

291
00:22:30,970 --> 00:22:32,940
How on earth did they
get your shorts off you?

292
00:22:32,941 --> 00:22:35,940
I don't know, I
let my guard down.

293
00:22:35,941 --> 00:22:38,928
I forgot Eric and
Graham would be there.

294
00:22:38,929 --> 00:22:43,270
Graham has had it out for me
ever since I sat on his gerbil.

295
00:22:43,271 --> 00:22:44,519
What is it I'm hearing?

296
00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:48,187
Look who I found,
ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh.

297
00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:52,799
It's good to see you.

298
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:54,915
Nala.

299
00:22:54,916 --> 00:22:55,749
Thank you.

300
00:22:55,750 --> 00:22:58,144
Awe, it's so good to see you.

301
00:22:58,145 --> 00:23:00,619
Oh, God, just hug your sister.

302
00:23:00,620 --> 00:23:01,453
Um.

303
00:23:01,453 --> 00:23:02,316
Um.

304
00:23:02,316 --> 00:23:03,243
Come on, come and sit down.

305
00:23:03,244 --> 00:23:05,873
Come sit down, sit
down, sit down.

306
00:23:05,874 --> 00:23:07,972
I guess your lectures
are secondary

307
00:23:07,973 --> 00:23:10,252
in the background right now.

308
00:23:10,253 --> 00:23:13,420
I know they were
when I was a student.

309
00:23:14,445 --> 00:23:17,375
Hey, I've actually been
going to all of my lectures.

310
00:23:17,376 --> 00:23:18,209
Um.

311
00:23:18,210 --> 00:23:20,223
Well, as many as I can.

312
00:23:20,224 --> 00:23:21,655
We are paying for
them after all.

313
00:23:21,656 --> 00:23:24,135
That's our girl getting
our money's worth.

314
00:23:24,136 --> 00:23:25,426
Isn't she?

315
00:23:25,427 --> 00:23:26,567
I'm currently getting
my head around

316
00:23:26,568 --> 00:23:29,146
the McLibel 1997 case.

317
00:23:29,147 --> 00:23:32,226
The judgment alone
was a thousand pages.

318
00:23:32,227 --> 00:23:35,134
Ooh, university
sounds so exciting.

319
00:23:35,135 --> 00:23:36,555
That's funny.

320
00:23:36,556 --> 00:23:37,643
You'd probably be, like,

321
00:23:37,644 --> 00:23:40,424
very disappointed when
you get there, Gabe.

322
00:23:40,425 --> 00:23:42,163
You'd find it's not
all just partying

323
00:23:42,164 --> 00:23:44,856
and dancing and drinking.

324
00:23:44,857 --> 00:23:48,304
Besides, based on your
most recent party,

325
00:23:48,305 --> 00:23:49,484
you should probably
spend more time

326
00:23:49,485 --> 00:23:52,694
with your head in your books.

327
00:23:52,695 --> 00:23:54,675
What, how, how does she know?

328
00:23:54,676 --> 00:23:55,925
I legit just told you.

329
00:23:55,926 --> 00:23:58,904
What happened at
Gabe's last party?

330
00:23:58,905 --> 00:24:01,024
Nothing, nothing,
nothing, nothing.

331
00:24:01,025 --> 00:24:03,256
You must be hungry.

332
00:24:03,257 --> 00:24:05,007
Have you been eating?

333
00:24:05,926 --> 00:24:06,878
Let me get you home.

334
00:24:06,879 --> 00:24:10,216
I've got a nice jerk roast
ready for dinner tonight.

335
00:24:10,217 --> 00:24:13,755
And we might even go
and watch a movie later.

336
00:24:13,756 --> 00:24:17,077
Well, first of all, I
have been eating, why?

337
00:24:17,078 --> 00:24:19,666
Does it look like I've been on
a hunger strike or something?

338
00:24:19,667 --> 00:24:21,934
It's a shame the cooks at
uni aren't as good as you.

339
00:24:21,935 --> 00:24:23,335
Of course.

340
00:24:23,336 --> 00:24:25,855
Uh-hmm, resorting to
flattery to connect

341
00:24:25,856 --> 00:24:27,906
just less in the kitchen.

342
00:24:27,907 --> 00:24:29,626
My uncle knows me.

343
00:24:29,627 --> 00:24:32,234
Well, we're all susceptible
to a little bit of flattery,

344
00:24:32,235 --> 00:24:33,235
hmm?

345
00:24:35,864 --> 00:24:37,503
So how's the shop doing mom?

346
00:24:37,504 --> 00:24:40,337
As you can see, we are thriving.

347
00:24:43,504 --> 00:24:45,578
Well, I'll have a
mocha if one's going.

348
00:24:45,579 --> 00:24:46,982
What size?

349
00:24:46,983 --> 00:24:48,306
The biggest one you have.

350
00:24:48,307 --> 00:24:49,307
Coming up.

351
00:24:55,897 --> 00:24:57,757
Now that I'm gone,

352
00:24:57,758 --> 00:24:59,774
I suspect that you
will be the rock

353
00:24:59,775 --> 00:25:03,117
that your mother leans on
when times are difficult.

354
00:25:03,118 --> 00:25:04,324
It will be a tough assignment,

355
00:25:04,325 --> 00:25:08,408
but even if you could,
you shouldn't do it alone.

356
00:25:14,577 --> 00:25:16,877
So how's she been doing?

357
00:25:16,878 --> 00:25:19,837
Not great, to be
perfectly honest.

358
00:25:19,838 --> 00:25:23,505
In my opinion, she's
actually getting worse.

359
00:25:25,390 --> 00:25:27,730
We'll talk properly later.

360
00:25:27,731 --> 00:25:29,258
Okay, all right.

361
00:25:29,259 --> 00:25:32,839
Little man, come on,
I'll drive you home.

362
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,090
What happened to big man?

363
00:25:36,488 --> 00:25:39,738
That was before you
lost your shorts.

364
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:46,333
You know I'm younger and
stronger than you, right?

365
00:25:47,697 --> 00:25:48,947
Younger, yes.

366
00:25:50,127 --> 00:25:52,167
Stronger, hell no.

367
00:25:52,168 --> 00:25:55,136
Don't blast him.

368
00:25:55,137 --> 00:25:56,137
Mea culpa.

369
00:25:57,166 --> 00:25:59,166
Come on Abraham Lincoln.

370
00:26:00,206 --> 00:26:01,289
I'll see you.

371
00:26:02,246 --> 00:26:03,285
Love you.

372
00:26:03,286 --> 00:26:06,286
Love you, see you later.

373
00:26:11,057 --> 00:26:13,974
So how's mom really been doing?

374
00:26:13,975 --> 00:26:18,145
I mean, I see she's
putting on a brave face,

375
00:26:18,146 --> 00:26:20,892
but I can sense the
pain underneath.

376
00:26:20,893 --> 00:26:22,660
All I can say is, Nala,

377
00:26:22,661 --> 00:26:25,711
your mom's going through a
rollercoaster of emotions.

378
00:26:25,712 --> 00:26:27,791
Some days she's managing okay.

379
00:26:27,792 --> 00:26:32,191
Finding the strength to go on
for you, Gabriel, and herself,

380
00:26:32,192 --> 00:26:34,609
but then there are other days

381
00:26:35,952 --> 00:26:38,201
when the grief
just overwhelms her

382
00:26:38,202 --> 00:26:40,991
and she finds it
difficult to function.

383
00:26:40,992 --> 00:26:44,492
She just feels so alone
a lot of the time.

384
00:26:47,269 --> 00:26:49,561
I've just got so many
commitments going on right now

385
00:26:49,562 --> 00:26:54,062
and I don't fully understand
what she's going through.

386
00:26:56,112 --> 00:26:59,412
Nala, when was the
last time you were here

387
00:26:59,413 --> 00:27:01,292
for longer than a
day, if that even?

388
00:27:01,293 --> 00:27:02,126
But.

389
00:27:02,127 --> 00:27:04,459
Nala, Nala, let me finish.

390
00:27:06,093 --> 00:27:07,093
I miss you,

391
00:27:09,471 --> 00:27:11,304
your mom, Gabe misses.

392
00:27:16,722 --> 00:27:17,805
Don't, don't.

393
00:27:22,712 --> 00:27:25,129
I'm sorry, you must be tired.

394
00:27:28,813 --> 00:27:33,159
Do you think mom will
find happiness again?

395
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:34,910
Dad was her soulmate.

396
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:43,580
Your mom's journey to healing
will take some time, Nala,

397
00:27:43,581 --> 00:27:47,970
but I believe that someday
she will find happiness soon.

398
00:27:47,971 --> 00:27:52,929
It's not easy to lose
someone that you love deeply.

399
00:27:52,930 --> 00:27:55,013
She will find love again.

400
00:27:56,117 --> 00:27:57,908
It won't be the same,

401
00:27:57,909 --> 00:27:59,719
but she will learn to
cherish the memories

402
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:04,553
and create a new future for
you, herself, and for Gabriel.

403
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:10,279
I hope so.

404
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:12,428
I just want her to be okay.

405
00:28:12,429 --> 00:28:14,748
Then you should come
home more often.

406
00:28:14,749 --> 00:28:17,908
There is Easter,
there is Christmas.

407
00:28:17,909 --> 00:28:20,577
There is the summer holidays.

408
00:28:20,578 --> 00:28:25,245
You left me here by myself,
Nala, to hold down the fort.

409
00:28:29,109 --> 00:28:33,185
The boys are trying,
but it's not the same.

410
00:28:33,186 --> 00:28:36,186
I miss you, you're
the missing link.

411
00:28:49,626 --> 00:28:50,876
What about you?

412
00:28:52,146 --> 00:28:53,479
What about me?

413
00:28:55,509 --> 00:28:59,342
Are you allowing
yourself to grieve?

414
00:29:00,930 --> 00:29:04,188
Has mom been going
to church at all?

415
00:29:04,189 --> 00:29:05,558
We'll get there,

416
00:29:05,559 --> 00:29:07,257
but I know I said I
was going to update you

417
00:29:07,258 --> 00:29:08,889
if anything happened.

418
00:29:08,890 --> 00:29:10,969
Unfortunately, she's
just been the same

419
00:29:10,970 --> 00:29:13,118
as the last time you saw her.

420
00:29:13,119 --> 00:29:13,999
What?

421
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:16,296
So Darius hasn't kept in
contact when he said he would.

422
00:29:16,297 --> 00:29:18,158
There is only so
much Darius can do

423
00:29:18,159 --> 00:29:20,785
if your mom doesn't
want to be helped.

424
00:29:20,786 --> 00:29:21,869
I guess so.

425
00:29:23,890 --> 00:29:25,518
Oh, also, there's a bit of news

426
00:29:25,519 --> 00:29:27,508
that we need to update you on.

427
00:29:27,509 --> 00:29:29,129
Darius is leaving the parish.

428
00:29:29,130 --> 00:29:29,963
What?

429
00:29:29,963 --> 00:29:30,796
I know.

430
00:29:30,797 --> 00:29:31,988
He got a call from
Southern diocese

431
00:29:31,989 --> 00:29:33,729
to be in London for now.

432
00:29:33,730 --> 00:29:37,228
We had to apply for a new vicar.

433
00:29:37,229 --> 00:29:39,948
Well, we've been attendees
of his church for years now.

434
00:29:39,949 --> 00:29:41,718
He didn't even bother
to say goodbye.

435
00:29:41,719 --> 00:29:42,828
He was sorry to go,

436
00:29:42,829 --> 00:29:47,079
but he's been chasing that
promotion for years now.

437
00:29:48,069 --> 00:29:50,955
Hmm, so who's our new
vicar out of interest?

438
00:29:50,956 --> 00:29:52,456
Geraldine Granger.

439
00:29:53,557 --> 00:29:55,224
Ha-ha, very funny.

440
00:29:56,128 --> 00:29:58,367
No, we haven't
actually met him yet.

441
00:29:58,368 --> 00:29:59,396
Or her.

442
00:29:59,397 --> 00:30:01,127
No, it's definitely a him.

443
00:30:01,128 --> 00:30:03,418
His name is Michael Johnson.

444
00:30:03,419 --> 00:30:04,919
Michael Johnson.

445
00:30:06,226 --> 00:30:08,059
Does he have a family?

446
00:30:09,146 --> 00:30:11,146
I don't know yet, why?

447
00:30:12,459 --> 00:30:15,042
I'm just curious, that's all.

448
00:30:17,507 --> 00:30:18,340
Hmm.

449
00:30:18,341 --> 00:30:19,474
Well, I'm sure he'd
be perfectly nice

450
00:30:19,475 --> 00:30:21,007
when we get to know him.

451
00:30:21,008 --> 00:30:22,025
He may not be Darius,

452
00:30:22,026 --> 00:30:26,693
but as Darius always says,
God works in mysterious ways.

453
00:30:27,888 --> 00:30:30,425
I'm sure he's exactly
what God wants for us.

454
00:30:30,426 --> 00:30:31,716
Well, if he's a vicar who
could help me memorize

455
00:30:31,717 --> 00:30:34,356
hundreds of pages
of law gibberish,

456
00:30:34,357 --> 00:30:38,244
then he'll be just what
we needed for sure.

457
00:30:38,245 --> 00:30:39,995
Miracles do happen.

458
00:30:41,997 --> 00:30:44,134
Anyway, let's get out of here.

459
00:30:44,135 --> 00:30:46,174
Mom's probably dying to
stuff me full of jerk roast

460
00:30:46,175 --> 00:30:48,012
until I burst.

461
00:30:48,013 --> 00:30:50,180
Not the worst way to go.

462
00:31:00,424 --> 00:31:01,924
Come on, let's go.

463
00:31:11,744 --> 00:31:12,577
Whatever you're selling

464
00:31:12,578 --> 00:31:14,863
we have an ample supply already.

465
00:31:14,864 --> 00:31:15,947
Very funny.

466
00:31:17,382 --> 00:31:19,132
Are you nearly ready?

467
00:31:20,315 --> 00:31:24,482
Nearly, I just need to
convince mom to come too.

468
00:31:37,053 --> 00:31:41,470
I'm sorry, Nala, I don't
think that's gonna happen.

469
00:31:42,565 --> 00:31:45,964
Please, just let me have
one more go to convince her.

470
00:31:45,965 --> 00:31:47,298
I won't be long.

471
00:31:52,624 --> 00:31:55,541
What do you think
the chances are

472
00:31:56,622 --> 00:31:59,901
of her persuading
your mom to come?

473
00:31:59,902 --> 00:32:04,164
Hmm, well, she listens to
Nala more than most people.

474
00:32:04,165 --> 00:32:06,332
Uh-uh, not gonna happen.

475
00:32:07,432 --> 00:32:08,432
I would put

476
00:32:12,456 --> 00:32:14,039
10 pound on it now.

477
00:32:16,632 --> 00:32:17,632
Well.

478
00:32:23,872 --> 00:32:27,791
That's just not going
to happen, honey.

479
00:32:27,792 --> 00:32:29,873
Not even to see
some old friends?

480
00:32:29,874 --> 00:32:32,175
Not even to see
some old friends.

481
00:32:32,176 --> 00:32:33,513
I'm sorry, Nala.

482
00:32:33,514 --> 00:32:34,993
But mom, why?

483
00:32:34,994 --> 00:32:37,364
Look, you know exactly why.

484
00:32:37,365 --> 00:32:42,032
And that's the last word I
wanna hear about this matter.

485
00:32:48,656 --> 00:32:49,989
Okay mom, bye.

486
00:32:51,894 --> 00:32:52,894
Bye Nala.

487
00:32:58,154 --> 00:33:00,084
Shall we just go?

488
00:33:00,085 --> 00:33:03,735
Bowie said he can't
mind the shop.

489
00:33:03,736 --> 00:33:05,569
I have to go, I can't.

490
00:33:07,554 --> 00:33:09,971
I have to go with my uncle.

491
00:33:21,834 --> 00:33:26,834
♪ Amazing grace how
sweet the sound ♪

492
00:33:28,994 --> 00:33:33,994
♪ That saved a wretch like me ♪

493
00:33:36,813 --> 00:33:40,361
♪ I once was lost ♪

494
00:33:40,362 --> 00:33:42,822
What do you think
of the new guy?

495
00:33:42,823 --> 00:33:46,350
Better looking than
Darius I think so.

496
00:33:46,351 --> 00:33:51,350
♪ But now I see ♪

497
00:33:51,351 --> 00:33:56,088
♪ My chains are gone
I've been set free ♪

498
00:33:57,503 --> 00:33:59,153
Shh.

499
00:33:59,154 --> 00:34:03,821
♪ Because God my Savior
has ransomed me ♪

500
00:34:06,834 --> 00:34:08,364
I haven't been home for ages.

501
00:34:08,365 --> 00:34:11,065
I can't believe they
didn't come with us.

502
00:34:11,066 --> 00:34:14,106
I can tell you now,
Malik's not any different.

503
00:34:14,107 --> 00:34:15,107
Hey Agatha.

504
00:34:16,027 --> 00:34:18,497
How was Sunday school?

505
00:34:18,498 --> 00:34:20,298
The kids were a bit rowdy.

506
00:34:20,299 --> 00:34:21,468
Oh.

507
00:34:21,469 --> 00:34:24,250
One of them decided to reenact
a particular movie scene

508
00:34:24,251 --> 00:34:26,426
and I had to put
him in a corner.

509
00:34:26,427 --> 00:34:28,730
Which movie, "Ratatouille,"
"Toy Story," "Cars?"

510
00:34:28,731 --> 00:34:30,890
It was a '70's movie.

511
00:34:30,891 --> 00:34:33,631
May the power of
Christ compel him.

512
00:34:33,632 --> 00:34:34,762
"The Exorcist?"

513
00:34:34,763 --> 00:34:35,763
Oh.

514
00:34:40,312 --> 00:34:44,770
Sunday School was never
this fun when I was there.

515
00:34:44,771 --> 00:34:46,802
Have you met the
new vicar at all?

516
00:34:46,803 --> 00:34:49,042
Only very briefly.

517
00:34:49,043 --> 00:34:51,151
He seemed perfectly charming
for the whole two minutes

518
00:34:51,152 --> 00:34:53,235
I had to get to know him.

519
00:34:54,584 --> 00:34:55,874
Well, two minutes is
more than enough time

520
00:34:55,875 --> 00:34:57,364
to get to know someone.

521
00:34:57,365 --> 00:34:58,365
- Hmm.
- Hmm.

522
00:34:59,315 --> 00:35:00,342
He's good looking.

523
00:35:00,343 --> 00:35:01,176
Uh-hmm.

524
00:35:01,177 --> 00:35:02,903
I've heard he works out.

525
00:35:02,904 --> 00:35:04,433
Oh.

526
00:35:04,434 --> 00:35:07,913
He reads and he also
plays in a band.

527
00:35:07,914 --> 00:35:09,033
Which band?

528
00:35:09,034 --> 00:35:11,513
What does he play?

529
00:35:11,514 --> 00:35:13,215
Bass guitar.

530
00:35:13,216 --> 00:35:15,799
I've also heard he has tattoos.

531
00:35:18,664 --> 00:35:19,664
Stop.

532
00:35:21,154 --> 00:35:23,071
Oh, may God forgive me.

533
00:35:24,953 --> 00:35:29,953
And between us, I've also heard
on the communion grapevine

534
00:35:31,456 --> 00:35:33,123
that he's a widower.

535
00:35:33,994 --> 00:35:35,411
Oh, is that so.

536
00:35:37,154 --> 00:35:38,737
Reverend Johnson.

537
00:35:44,472 --> 00:35:48,671
So are there a lot of
clubs in Canterbury?

538
00:35:48,672 --> 00:35:51,152
Hmm, I don't really go clubbing.

539
00:35:51,153 --> 00:35:51,986
Once you've been once

540
00:35:51,987 --> 00:35:55,653
you've pretty much had
the whole experience.

541
00:35:56,591 --> 00:35:58,422
Anything's better
than Caswell, right?

542
00:35:58,423 --> 00:35:59,423
Sure.

543
00:36:00,951 --> 00:36:04,950
Have you had a chance to
step into the cathedral yet?

544
00:36:04,951 --> 00:36:08,229
Students go in free, so
I went on my second week.

545
00:36:08,230 --> 00:36:09,950
Who wanted the
black coffee again?

546
00:36:09,951 --> 00:36:10,950
Yep, me.

547
00:36:10,950 --> 00:36:11,950
Ah-ha.

548
00:36:15,341 --> 00:36:16,424
There you go.

549
00:36:20,062 --> 00:36:21,240
Here you go.

550
00:36:21,241 --> 00:36:22,110
Thanks, auntie.

551
00:36:22,110 --> 00:36:22,943
How was the service?

552
00:36:22,944 --> 00:36:24,320
I loved it.

553
00:36:24,321 --> 00:36:25,154
Well, who can blame her

554
00:36:25,155 --> 00:36:27,451
when she had such good
eye candy to look at?

555
00:36:27,452 --> 00:36:28,452
Nala.

556
00:36:29,312 --> 00:36:31,589
I just thought he was a
good speaker, that's all.

557
00:36:31,590 --> 00:36:32,423
Is is married?

558
00:36:32,424 --> 00:36:35,892
Um, Agatha said that
he had been widowed.

559
00:36:35,893 --> 00:36:37,863
I really do hope
he's okay, though.

560
00:36:37,864 --> 00:36:39,630
He did say that he
was a bit nervous

561
00:36:39,631 --> 00:36:42,972
about moving into a new
place all by himself.

562
00:36:42,973 --> 00:36:45,601
Oh geez, the poor guy.

563
00:36:45,602 --> 00:36:48,172
I reckon he'll be fine
once he settles in.

564
00:36:48,173 --> 00:36:52,090
Plus, he's going to get
to meet all the locals.

565
00:36:53,482 --> 00:36:55,315
My thoughts exactly.

566
00:37:04,962 --> 00:37:06,441
Nala, I know you've been
wanting to set mom up

567
00:37:06,442 --> 00:37:07,959
for the longest time.

568
00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:10,840
Now I do appreciate that it's
coming from a place of love,

569
00:37:10,841 --> 00:37:13,422
but don't you think you
should wait until mom's ready?

570
00:37:13,423 --> 00:37:16,256
Hmm, you make a good point Gabe,

571
00:37:17,813 --> 00:37:19,633
but how do you think
that's gonna happen?

572
00:37:19,634 --> 00:37:23,393
She never goes out so she
never encounters anyone new.

573
00:37:23,394 --> 00:37:24,892
Well.

574
00:37:24,893 --> 00:37:26,513
With all due respect
to my sister,

575
00:37:26,514 --> 00:37:29,479
she's never been good at
deducing what's good for her.

576
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:30,601
Do you remember
when we were kids

577
00:37:30,602 --> 00:37:34,321
and we had to pester her
repeatedly and annoy her

578
00:37:34,322 --> 00:37:37,022
for her to come on a
camping trip with us.

579
00:37:37,023 --> 00:37:38,023
And guess what?

580
00:37:38,024 --> 00:37:41,040
She loved it just as
we knew she would.

581
00:37:41,041 --> 00:37:43,841
So yeah, I agree with Nala.

582
00:37:43,842 --> 00:37:46,942
Meeting someone might
just do wonders her.

583
00:37:46,943 --> 00:37:48,921
Thanks, auntie.

584
00:37:48,922 --> 00:37:50,292
So wait, you're
serious about this.

585
00:37:50,293 --> 00:37:53,982
You think that this guy
we just met this week

586
00:37:53,983 --> 00:37:57,502
could potentially be an
ideal match for our mother?

587
00:37:57,503 --> 00:38:00,673
Maybe not a match,
but once she sees him,

588
00:38:00,674 --> 00:38:03,662
goes on a couple
dates, you never know.

589
00:38:03,663 --> 00:38:05,740
It can get the
ball rolling again.

590
00:38:05,741 --> 00:38:09,020
All I can say is good
luck trying to set her up

591
00:38:09,021 --> 00:38:11,622
with someone who's a
member of the church.

592
00:38:11,623 --> 00:38:14,201
I mean, I can't even
see her dating someone

593
00:38:14,202 --> 00:38:16,393
who attends church
at this point.

594
00:38:16,394 --> 00:38:19,473
Well, not with that
pessimistic attitude you can't.

595
00:38:19,474 --> 00:38:20,307
She doesn't even allow

596
00:38:20,308 --> 00:38:23,212
religious flyers
into the shop, Nala.

597
00:38:23,213 --> 00:38:25,324
I get you haven't
seen her in a while.

598
00:38:25,325 --> 00:38:26,381
You've been at uni and all,

599
00:38:26,382 --> 00:38:28,799
but my sister's not the same.

600
00:38:31,751 --> 00:38:35,262
I love my mom and I'll
do whatever it takes

601
00:38:35,263 --> 00:38:37,180
to see her smile again.

602
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:41,291
That's a lovely thought.

603
00:38:41,292 --> 00:38:42,625
Thanks, uncle.

604
00:38:45,721 --> 00:38:47,371
You don't have to help
me in this endeavor

605
00:38:47,372 --> 00:38:49,512
if you don't want to.

606
00:38:49,513 --> 00:38:52,062
You can sit back and
watch it all fall apart

607
00:38:52,063 --> 00:38:54,651
and have your whole
I told you so moment.

608
00:38:54,652 --> 00:38:55,942
If you think this guy would
be great for your mom,

609
00:38:55,943 --> 00:39:00,112
of course, I will support
you in any way I can.

610
00:39:00,113 --> 00:39:01,571
Thanks, uncle.

611
00:39:01,572 --> 00:39:03,000
What's that?

612
00:39:03,001 --> 00:39:05,920
Did my brother just agree that
an idea to set his sister up

613
00:39:05,921 --> 00:39:07,254
just might work?

614
00:39:08,313 --> 00:39:12,051
Who are you and what have
you done with my uncle?

615
00:39:12,052 --> 00:39:15,552
Look, come on, I'm
not that pessimistic.

616
00:39:17,641 --> 00:39:21,699
So, you think we should
try and introduce them?

617
00:39:21,700 --> 00:39:25,320
I'm sure he'd be interested
to meet her at the very least.

618
00:39:25,321 --> 00:39:26,720
You mentioned we've
had a family member

619
00:39:26,721 --> 00:39:30,691
who's had issues with
her faith recently.

620
00:39:30,692 --> 00:39:32,152
And because they both
lost someone they love

621
00:39:32,153 --> 00:39:34,653
they might find common ground.

622
00:39:36,460 --> 00:39:40,099
Even if she refuses to take
her faith into account.

623
00:39:40,100 --> 00:39:44,158
Now that's more of the
spirit that we like to see.

624
00:39:44,159 --> 00:39:49,159
The real challenge is getting
Destiny to accept him.

625
00:39:49,319 --> 00:39:51,227
You should find a time

626
00:39:51,228 --> 00:39:54,395
when she's more
receptive to the idea.

627
00:39:55,276 --> 00:39:57,817
Maybe when she's doing
something more relaxing

628
00:39:57,818 --> 00:40:01,387
like after a big
meal or something.

629
00:40:01,388 --> 00:40:04,346
Like last night
after the big meal,

630
00:40:04,347 --> 00:40:08,996
she looked really happy
with Nala and relaxed.

631
00:40:08,997 --> 00:40:11,604
Do you guys want any refills?

632
00:40:11,605 --> 00:40:12,605
No.

633
00:40:13,328 --> 00:40:16,404
No thanks, mom, we're
okay, thank you.

634
00:40:16,405 --> 00:40:19,767
Okay honey, I was
just wondering.

635
00:40:19,768 --> 00:40:21,639
What are you guys talking about?

636
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:24,546
Nala was just telling us
about her uni experiences

637
00:40:24,547 --> 00:40:26,047
who she's meeting.

638
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:30,498
She's thinking of setting
two people up that she knows.

639
00:40:30,499 --> 00:40:31,499
Oh.

640
00:40:33,710 --> 00:40:36,460
Really, you know,
that's my girl.

641
00:40:37,417 --> 00:40:40,616
I always knew that you were
really good at setting people up

642
00:40:40,617 --> 00:40:42,367
together, didn't you?

643
00:40:44,699 --> 00:40:47,837
Let's hope she's still
got that magic touch, eh.

644
00:40:47,838 --> 00:40:49,677
Mom, I'm gonna help
you behind the counter.

645
00:40:49,678 --> 00:40:51,254
Seems like you've been
worked off your feet a bit.

646
00:40:51,255 --> 00:40:53,338
Thanks honey.

647
00:40:56,105 --> 00:40:59,605
So, what's on your
itinerary today, mom?

648
00:41:01,457 --> 00:41:05,346
Well, Barry says that he'll
look after the shop for me

649
00:41:05,347 --> 00:41:09,805
'til one o'clock so I've
got the morning off.

650
00:41:09,806 --> 00:41:11,973
You could go for a walk.

651
00:41:14,387 --> 00:41:16,266
I guess I could,

652
00:41:16,267 --> 00:41:18,176
but it's not like I
haven't seen everything

653
00:41:18,177 --> 00:41:21,177
that Werrington has
to offer by now.

654
00:41:22,329 --> 00:41:26,128
I just think getting some
fresh air would do you good.

655
00:41:26,129 --> 00:41:28,459
There's no point in being
cooped in the house.

656
00:41:28,460 --> 00:41:30,956
Besides, you never
know who you might meet

657
00:41:30,957 --> 00:41:33,276
when you're out and about.

658
00:41:33,277 --> 00:41:34,836
Like who?

659
00:41:34,837 --> 00:41:37,537
I just mean in general.

660
00:41:37,538 --> 00:41:40,705
Well, I know everyone
in Werrington.

661
00:41:41,926 --> 00:41:46,843
Well, there is this new person
whose recently moved here.

662
00:41:48,214 --> 00:41:49,733
- Oh yeah?
- Yeah.

663
00:41:49,734 --> 00:41:51,234
What's his name?

664
00:41:52,366 --> 00:41:54,594
I know he's quite nervous

665
00:41:54,595 --> 00:41:57,125
about having moved
to a new place,

666
00:41:57,126 --> 00:41:58,906
and it will probably
do him some good

667
00:41:58,907 --> 00:42:02,456
to meet some new
people here too.

668
00:42:02,457 --> 00:42:05,397
Well, that's a great idea, Nala.

669
00:42:05,398 --> 00:42:07,065
Um, what's his name?

670
00:42:08,095 --> 00:42:10,345
Michael, Michael Johnson.

671
00:42:11,798 --> 00:42:14,048
Michael Johnson.

672
00:42:14,049 --> 00:42:16,728
Why does that name
sound familiar?

673
00:42:16,729 --> 00:42:20,037
We sort of met him yesterday at-

674
00:42:20,038 --> 00:42:21,237
Oh no, no, no.

675
00:42:21,238 --> 00:42:22,078
Mom.

676
00:42:22,079 --> 00:42:24,256
No, Nala, I'm sorry.

677
00:42:24,257 --> 00:42:26,056
Just to say hello.

678
00:42:26,057 --> 00:42:29,165
You know I'm not
into religion, right?

679
00:42:29,166 --> 00:42:30,038
And all he's gonna wanna do

680
00:42:30,039 --> 00:42:32,757
is to force his opinions on me.

681
00:42:32,758 --> 00:42:34,418
Honestly, mom, he's not someone

682
00:42:34,419 --> 00:42:37,144
to just ram his thoughts
down your throat,

683
00:42:37,145 --> 00:42:40,776
and I just know he would love
to hear what you have to say,

684
00:42:40,777 --> 00:42:41,610
and also-

685
00:42:41,610 --> 00:42:42,610
No, Nala.

686
00:42:43,758 --> 00:42:47,591
And that's my final word
on the subject, okay?

687
00:43:00,638 --> 00:43:01,547
Have you finished?

688
00:43:01,547 --> 00:43:02,547
Yeah.

689
00:43:06,937 --> 00:43:11,197
I know you mean the
best, but stop doing it.

690
00:43:11,198 --> 00:43:12,865
I just wanna help.

691
00:43:30,455 --> 00:43:33,683
I thought you packed it all in.

692
00:43:33,684 --> 00:43:36,732
I'm stressed out,
what can I say?

693
00:43:36,733 --> 00:43:41,400
You could say you've given
it up and actually mean it.

694
00:43:45,372 --> 00:43:49,171
Then you could say you
could get out some more.

695
00:43:49,172 --> 00:43:50,922
Meet some new people.

696
00:43:52,244 --> 00:43:53,342
What?

697
00:43:53,343 --> 00:43:55,032
It's just that
Nala said something

698
00:43:55,033 --> 00:43:57,450
very similar to me yesterday.

699
00:44:00,282 --> 00:44:01,949
It's common sense.

700
00:44:02,844 --> 00:44:05,761
Your daughter is
a very smart girl.

701
00:44:07,313 --> 00:44:11,146
Come on, she just wants
to reconnect with you.

702
00:44:12,063 --> 00:44:13,313
Open up to you.

703
00:44:25,212 --> 00:44:27,521
That's more like it.

704
00:44:27,522 --> 00:44:30,230
Nala is a really smart girl.

705
00:44:30,231 --> 00:44:31,830
She's so bright.

706
00:44:31,831 --> 00:44:34,081
She's just like her father.

707
00:44:39,390 --> 00:44:42,223
Do you think there is any chance

708
00:44:43,141 --> 00:44:46,391
that you could give
Nala's idea a shot?

709
00:44:49,330 --> 00:44:50,330
Huh?

710
00:44:51,831 --> 00:44:53,914
I want her back, Malik.

711
00:44:55,301 --> 00:44:58,801
I want things to be
like they were before.

712
00:44:59,991 --> 00:45:01,658
Okay, I'll meet him.

713
00:45:15,842 --> 00:45:17,700
Thanks so much for the call.

714
00:45:17,701 --> 00:45:19,169
No worries.

715
00:45:19,170 --> 00:45:20,881
How'd you think it's going?

716
00:45:20,882 --> 00:45:22,500
Not too sure just yet.

717
00:45:22,501 --> 00:45:25,540
You know how awkward mom
can be for interruptions.

718
00:45:25,541 --> 00:45:28,241
Yep, I know that much.

719
00:45:28,242 --> 00:45:30,391
Shall we go find out how
it's going ourselves?

720
00:45:30,392 --> 00:45:32,289
I thought you'd never ask.

721
00:45:32,290 --> 00:45:33,940
I'm definitely my
auntie's niece.

722
00:45:33,941 --> 00:45:36,858
I wouldn't have
it any other way.

723
00:45:40,381 --> 00:45:42,420
Can you see them?

724
00:45:42,421 --> 00:45:43,921
Negative.

725
00:45:47,848 --> 00:45:50,807
So where did you used to
live before coming here?

726
00:45:50,808 --> 00:45:54,225
I was based in
Battersea, South London.

727
00:45:55,069 --> 00:45:58,607
It's a very different place
from this lovely little village.

728
00:45:58,608 --> 00:46:01,498
Yeah, completely different.

729
00:46:01,499 --> 00:46:03,766
Me and my husband so loved
the look of this place

730
00:46:03,767 --> 00:46:07,684
that we decided that
when I became pregnant

731
00:46:07,685 --> 00:46:09,908
we would bring our
children up here.

732
00:46:09,909 --> 00:46:11,697
Well, that's really sweet.

733
00:46:11,698 --> 00:46:14,967
So, what does your husband do?

734
00:46:14,968 --> 00:46:16,348
He was a journalist.

735
00:46:16,349 --> 00:46:17,349
Amazing man.

736
00:46:19,528 --> 00:46:21,361
And he was so fabulous

737
00:46:23,765 --> 00:46:27,924
that he was even able to run
the local church newspaper.

738
00:46:27,925 --> 00:46:31,407
Oh, I didn't realize
there's a church paper.

739
00:46:31,408 --> 00:46:33,075
So what's it called?

740
00:46:36,134 --> 00:46:37,494
He died.

741
00:46:37,495 --> 00:46:40,495
Oh, I'm so, so
sorry to hear that.

742
00:46:42,175 --> 00:46:44,425
It was such a tough time.

743
00:46:45,426 --> 00:46:47,254
What am I talking about?

744
00:46:47,255 --> 00:46:48,255
It still is.

745
00:46:50,146 --> 00:46:53,563
People from the
community even talk about

746
00:46:54,523 --> 00:46:56,273
what a gap he's left.

747
00:47:00,814 --> 00:47:04,231
Do you want to talk about it?

748
00:47:06,523 --> 00:47:08,373
They're too far.

749
00:47:08,374 --> 00:47:11,124
Your mom looks serious.

750
00:47:12,454 --> 00:47:14,991
Well, I know it must
have been hard for you.

751
00:47:14,992 --> 00:47:16,575
How can you know?

752
00:47:18,504 --> 00:47:20,087
Believe me, I do.

753
00:47:21,923 --> 00:47:25,756
Eight years ago I lost
my wife in a car crash.

754
00:47:28,592 --> 00:47:30,413
I'm so sorry.

755
00:47:30,414 --> 00:47:31,882
It's all right.

756
00:47:31,883 --> 00:47:33,050
It was tragic.

757
00:47:36,454 --> 00:47:41,037
She was one of the guiding
lights of my life just gone,

758
00:47:42,443 --> 00:47:43,776
blink of an eye.

759
00:47:46,564 --> 00:47:49,064
Then I found myself on my own.

760
00:47:54,642 --> 00:47:55,642
You know,

761
00:47:57,921 --> 00:48:02,920
what really helped me through
the most darkest moments.

762
00:48:02,921 --> 00:48:06,270
A real strong
sense of community.

763
00:48:06,271 --> 00:48:09,252
I mean, that's why I so strongly
resonate with the church.

764
00:48:09,253 --> 00:48:11,921
I mean, it really
does act like a rock.

765
00:48:11,922 --> 00:48:15,572
I mean, when there's no
other foundations near.

766
00:48:15,573 --> 00:48:19,070
Well, you know, I can
struggle along on my own,

767
00:48:19,071 --> 00:48:20,532
but thank you very much.

768
00:48:20,533 --> 00:48:22,521
Well, look, Destiny,
we all can do that,

769
00:48:22,522 --> 00:48:26,051
but it doesn't mean
that we have to.

770
00:48:26,052 --> 00:48:29,969
Galatians 6 says, "Bear
one another's burdens."

771
00:48:39,171 --> 00:48:40,671
Look, if you ever did
wanna speak to somebody

772
00:48:40,672 --> 00:48:44,089
about what it's like
to lose a loved one,

773
00:48:45,570 --> 00:48:46,903
I'm always here.

774
00:48:48,462 --> 00:48:52,879
Every Sunday, in fact, I
mean, you're always welcome.

775
00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:56,569
How did I know this would turn
into a missionary attempt?

776
00:48:56,570 --> 00:48:59,507
No, no, no, no, look, I
just wanted you to know

777
00:48:59,508 --> 00:49:02,358
that the door is always open.

778
00:49:02,359 --> 00:49:03,777
Yeah, well, you know,

779
00:49:03,778 --> 00:49:06,636
it's very nice of you
to say so, Michael,

780
00:49:06,637 --> 00:49:09,596
because there's not a
lot of people that would.

781
00:49:09,597 --> 00:49:13,055
You know, people are
there in the beginning.

782
00:49:13,056 --> 00:49:15,905
They make an effort,
of course, they do,

783
00:49:15,906 --> 00:49:18,323
but they come around for tea.

784
00:49:20,506 --> 00:49:23,145
They come around to
give their condolences.

785
00:49:23,146 --> 00:49:26,535
And then at some
point your friends,

786
00:49:26,536 --> 00:49:29,825
they have to get on
with their own life.

787
00:49:29,826 --> 00:49:31,985
And, you know, after a while

788
00:49:31,986 --> 00:49:35,319
I just found I was
completely on my own,

789
00:49:37,266 --> 00:49:39,516
again, in darkness just me.

790
00:49:41,045 --> 00:49:42,712
It happened to me.

791
00:49:46,495 --> 00:49:50,912
There's probably more of us
than you perhaps realize.

792
00:49:54,685 --> 00:49:57,102
It was nice talking to you.

793
00:50:03,677 --> 00:50:05,844
Destiny darling.

794
00:50:08,066 --> 00:50:12,444
By the time you read this, I
will no longer be with you,

795
00:50:12,445 --> 00:50:15,278
but in a safe and
wonderful place.

796
00:50:18,266 --> 00:50:22,025
I'm not writing to
tell you not to cry.

797
00:50:22,026 --> 00:50:24,193
Every life has some tears.

798
00:50:26,043 --> 00:50:31,043
I'm writing this letter because
as one of the most kindest,

799
00:50:31,165 --> 00:50:35,023
thoughtful, and
selfless people I know,

800
00:50:35,024 --> 00:50:39,107
you have a habit of ignoring
what's best for you.

801
00:50:46,834 --> 00:50:48,001
Oh, Michael.

802
00:50:49,193 --> 00:50:52,651
Hey, Destiny, your daughter
said that you worked here,

803
00:50:52,652 --> 00:50:55,243
so I thought I'd
come and say hi.

804
00:50:55,244 --> 00:50:58,244
Hi, I'm really
sorry, I'm closing.

805
00:50:59,421 --> 00:51:00,921
Oh, okay, sorry.

806
00:51:03,193 --> 00:51:07,776
Yeah, I just wanted to say
we enjoyed our conversation.

807
00:51:09,244 --> 00:51:12,510
Thank you, yeah, sorry,
I just really have to go.

808
00:51:12,511 --> 00:51:13,393
I've got to close.

809
00:51:13,394 --> 00:51:14,621
Okay, no worries.

810
00:51:14,622 --> 00:51:17,461
Okay, sorry, sorry, yeah, bye.

811
00:51:17,462 --> 00:51:20,810
Going through mourning
is a tough time,

812
00:51:20,811 --> 00:51:23,278
but for everything
there is a season

813
00:51:23,279 --> 00:51:26,850
and a time for every
purpose under heaven.

814
00:51:26,851 --> 00:51:31,648
I don't want you to trudge
about the house after I'm gone.

815
00:51:31,649 --> 00:51:35,680
The Destiny that I married
wouldn't and shouldn't get stuck

816
00:51:35,681 --> 00:51:39,264
in a perpetual state
of mourning and grief.

817
00:51:41,331 --> 00:51:44,831
Hey mom, I think it's for you.

818
00:51:47,662 --> 00:51:50,152
Michael, hi.

819
00:51:50,153 --> 00:51:51,820
Yeah, hi, Destiny.

820
00:51:54,090 --> 00:51:55,650
Is this a bad time?

821
00:51:55,651 --> 00:51:57,734
I wasn't expecting you.

822
00:51:58,593 --> 00:52:00,560
I guess you should come in.

823
00:52:00,561 --> 00:52:03,432
We were just about
to have dinner.

824
00:52:03,433 --> 00:52:06,552
Gabriel, one of my friends
invited Gabriel and I out.

825
00:52:06,553 --> 00:52:08,392
Wait, what?

826
00:52:08,393 --> 00:52:11,370
We should probably go meet them.

827
00:52:11,371 --> 00:52:15,581
Oh, oh, right, yeah, I forgot
we had been invited out.

828
00:52:15,582 --> 00:52:16,415
What?

829
00:52:16,415 --> 00:52:17,248
We should get going.

830
00:52:17,248 --> 00:52:18,226
I don't think so.

831
00:52:18,227 --> 00:52:21,254
We were just sitting down we're
just about to have dinner.

832
00:52:21,255 --> 00:52:22,886
Oh no, we ate a bit earlier.

833
00:52:22,887 --> 00:52:23,720
Yeah.

834
00:52:23,720 --> 00:52:24,553
We'll be fine.

835
00:52:24,554 --> 00:52:27,261
What's the name of this friend?

836
00:52:27,262 --> 00:52:28,429
- Mary.
- Jane.

837
00:52:29,713 --> 00:52:31,091
- Mary Jane.
- Yeah.

838
00:52:31,092 --> 00:52:35,341
She's a fairly new friend,
you don't know her.

839
00:52:35,342 --> 00:52:36,342
Okay.

840
00:52:39,993 --> 00:52:42,101
Michael, there's plenty
of food left for you.

841
00:52:42,102 --> 00:52:46,272
Help yourself and please don't
tell mom I asked you over.

842
00:52:46,273 --> 00:52:47,640
What do you mean, she
doesn't know I was coming?

843
00:52:47,641 --> 00:52:48,849
Gotta go, have fun.

844
00:52:48,850 --> 00:52:50,433
See ya.

845
00:52:56,572 --> 00:52:59,560
So I suppose you
wanna say grace.

846
00:52:59,561 --> 00:53:01,978
Well, it is your house, so,

847
00:53:03,172 --> 00:53:06,302
but I can do if you
would like me to.

848
00:53:06,303 --> 00:53:10,862
Well, I must admit it's
very kind of you to offer

849
00:53:10,863 --> 00:53:13,592
and I'm glad that something
as simple as praying

850
00:53:13,593 --> 00:53:16,093
can bring such comfort to you.

851
00:53:18,852 --> 00:53:22,102
I think praying
doesn't help me at all.

852
00:53:23,463 --> 00:53:24,843
Really?

853
00:53:24,844 --> 00:53:26,742
Why do you say that?

854
00:53:26,743 --> 00:53:28,512
Well, just think about it.

855
00:53:28,513 --> 00:53:31,904
God doesn't answer
prayers, does he?

856
00:53:31,905 --> 00:53:34,183
And if He did, it wouldn't
be called a prayer.

857
00:53:34,184 --> 00:53:36,253
It would be called
a correspondence.

858
00:53:36,254 --> 00:53:40,171
Well, look, I don't pray
to get my needs met.

859
00:53:41,904 --> 00:53:44,654
I try and fix my
problems myself.

860
00:53:45,623 --> 00:53:48,782
I pray when I'm at
my lowest moments.

861
00:53:48,783 --> 00:53:51,471
That way I know
that God's there.

862
00:53:51,472 --> 00:53:55,772
It's more for my benefit
rather than God's benefit.

863
00:53:55,773 --> 00:53:59,606
Hmm, that's fair
enough I suppose.

864
00:54:03,472 --> 00:54:05,183
Can I ask you a question?

865
00:54:05,184 --> 00:54:06,601
Yeah.

866
00:54:07,943 --> 00:54:12,142
Why did you shut Christ
out of your life?

867
00:54:12,143 --> 00:54:15,202
Well, I didn't shut Him out.

868
00:54:15,203 --> 00:54:18,703
I believe that He shut
me out of His life.

869
00:54:22,592 --> 00:54:24,342
Does that make sense?

870
00:54:27,893 --> 00:54:31,142
Why did you give
your life to Christ?

871
00:54:31,143 --> 00:54:34,812
It's not that I decided
to give my life to Christ.

872
00:54:34,813 --> 00:54:39,722
It's more that I decided to
share my life with Christ.

873
00:54:39,723 --> 00:54:42,908
It was when my wife
died, actually.

874
00:54:42,909 --> 00:54:47,087
I'd always believed,
but just in losing her,

875
00:54:47,088 --> 00:54:50,421
I found in God more
than any other thing

876
00:54:52,059 --> 00:54:53,938
is what really kept me going.

877
00:54:53,939 --> 00:54:58,189
And I realized the comfort
that I received from Him

878
00:54:59,909 --> 00:55:01,636
I was able to give
to other people.

879
00:55:01,637 --> 00:55:04,687
And I couldn't think
of a more honorable way

880
00:55:04,688 --> 00:55:06,887
to live my life than that.

881
00:55:06,888 --> 00:55:08,028
Oh, that sounds like

882
00:55:08,029 --> 00:55:11,529
a really honorable way
to join the church.

883
00:55:16,339 --> 00:55:19,027
Well, yeah, I had some real
positive responses to it

884
00:55:19,028 --> 00:55:22,445
and, you know, met so
many lovely people,

885
00:55:23,648 --> 00:55:27,556
people have given me strength,
given me encouragement,

886
00:55:27,557 --> 00:55:29,474
and me to them as well.

887
00:55:30,579 --> 00:55:34,167
So did that help you to
move on with your grief

888
00:55:34,168 --> 00:55:35,898
to get over things?

889
00:55:35,899 --> 00:55:37,232
All of it did.

890
00:55:38,918 --> 00:55:43,106
He shall wipe away every
tear from their eye

891
00:55:43,107 --> 00:55:45,357
and death shall be no more.

892
00:55:46,208 --> 00:55:50,625
Neither shall there be
mourning, crying, pain anymore

893
00:55:51,758 --> 00:55:54,617
for the former things
have passed away.

894
00:55:54,618 --> 00:55:55,785
Revelations?

895
00:55:57,459 --> 00:55:58,776
You still read your Bible?

896
00:55:58,777 --> 00:56:02,860
No, but I still remember
bits and pieces of it.

897
00:56:03,747 --> 00:56:06,338
I remember how much
comfort it used to give me.

898
00:56:06,339 --> 00:56:09,672
Yeah, I remember
after losing Susanna,

899
00:56:10,827 --> 00:56:13,160
I didn't know where to turn.

900
00:56:14,808 --> 00:56:19,058
Probably about a month or
so after I finally heeded

901
00:56:20,599 --> 00:56:24,948
to one of the most repeated
messages in the Bible.

902
00:56:24,949 --> 00:56:26,977
What was that?

903
00:56:26,978 --> 00:56:30,645
Fear not, in other
words, don't be afraid.

904
00:56:34,638 --> 00:56:38,138
Eight years, it's a
long time to be alone,

905
00:56:40,549 --> 00:56:44,966
but with Christ there it
just doesn't seem that long.

906
00:56:48,149 --> 00:56:51,047
And He did say to me
that He's a friend

907
00:56:51,048 --> 00:56:53,881
that sticks closer
than a brother.

908
00:56:58,869 --> 00:57:01,519
So do you have any children?

909
00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:03,520
No, I don't.

910
00:57:05,069 --> 00:57:06,927
I don't have any siblings.

911
00:57:06,928 --> 00:57:09,007
And both of my
parents have passed.

912
00:57:09,008 --> 00:57:10,008
I'm sorry.

913
00:57:11,488 --> 00:57:16,359
You know, I've never
really felt alone.

914
00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:20,218
They're all still with
us really, aren't they?

915
00:57:20,219 --> 00:57:23,386
Yeah, I guess I
just, I forgot that.

916
00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:31,298
I closed my ears to it when
I was looking after Jamal

917
00:57:31,299 --> 00:57:32,882
in his final weeks.

918
00:57:35,478 --> 00:57:36,508
I can't imagine the stress

919
00:57:36,509 --> 00:57:39,927
that you were under
during that time.

920
00:57:39,928 --> 00:57:43,967
It makes sense why you
were so worn out by it.

921
00:57:43,968 --> 00:57:46,885
But I don't feel
so worn out now.

922
00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:50,823
Not like I was three years ago.

923
00:57:52,259 --> 00:57:56,138
And I'm realizing there
was such a lot of people

924
00:57:56,139 --> 00:58:00,158
who were so loving and
supportive to me throughout,

925
00:58:00,159 --> 00:58:02,658
and you've helped me.

926
00:58:02,659 --> 00:58:04,992
And it's just that I thought

927
00:58:07,280 --> 00:58:11,037
Jesus wasn't loving
and supporting to me.

928
00:58:11,038 --> 00:58:15,121
Destiny, Jesus' spirit
works through all of us,

929
00:58:17,549 --> 00:58:20,178
but just through other people.

930
00:58:20,179 --> 00:58:23,588
I mean, I like to call
Him the Great Includer.

931
00:58:23,589 --> 00:58:27,327
I mean, you can see Him at
work throughout the whole world

932
00:58:27,328 --> 00:58:30,245
with every hand
that's reached out,

933
00:58:32,680 --> 00:58:37,263
every comforting shoulder
and every welcoming neighbor.

934
00:58:44,379 --> 00:58:49,129
Anyway, talking about welcoming
neighbor, shall we eat?

935
00:58:50,499 --> 00:58:53,268
Everything looks delicious.

936
00:58:53,269 --> 00:58:54,269
Grace?

937
00:59:00,628 --> 00:59:02,236
Heavenly Father,

938
00:59:02,237 --> 00:59:07,067
we thank you for this food that
we are about to partake of.

939
00:59:07,068 --> 00:59:09,287
We pray that it
would do us good.

940
00:59:09,288 --> 00:59:11,467
We also pray a special
blessing to the hands

941
00:59:11,468 --> 00:59:13,407
that prepared it.

942
00:59:13,408 --> 00:59:15,158
In Jesus' name, Amen.

943
00:59:21,069 --> 00:59:23,556
If you want to honor
my memory best,

944
00:59:23,557 --> 00:59:26,307
please go and
start living again.

945
00:59:29,069 --> 00:59:34,068
God has given you a wonderful
life on this wonderful earth.

946
00:59:34,069 --> 00:59:38,567
And you should experience
His creation to the fullest.

947
00:59:38,568 --> 00:59:41,401
It would be improper
not to do so.

948
00:59:42,917 --> 00:59:43,917
I love you.

949
00:59:45,746 --> 00:59:47,829
And don't stop believing.

950
00:59:48,736 --> 00:59:50,986
We'll see each other again.

951
00:59:53,123 --> 00:59:58,123
♪ I will enter His gates with
thanksgiving in my heart ♪

952
00:59:58,446 --> 01:00:03,446
♪ I will enter His
courts with praise ♪

953
01:00:04,438 --> 01:00:09,438
♪ I will say this is the
day that the Lord has made ♪

954
01:00:10,606 --> 01:00:15,606
♪ I will rejoice for
He has made me glad ♪

955
01:00:17,078 --> 01:00:22,237
♪ He has made me glad ♪

956
01:00:22,238 --> 01:00:24,277
This was one of your
father's favorite songs.

957
01:00:24,278 --> 01:00:27,528
Yeah, I remember
him liking this one.

958
01:00:28,947 --> 01:00:34,616
♪ He has made me glad ♪

959
01:00:34,617 --> 01:00:39,617
♪ I will rejoice for
He has made me glad ♪

960
01:00:40,697 --> 01:00:45,697
♪ I will rejoice for
He has made me glad ♪

961
01:00:47,758 --> 01:00:49,675
♪ Amen ♪

962
01:00:53,057 --> 01:00:55,640
This is amazing, look at you.

963
01:00:58,028 --> 01:00:59,445
Thank you, mom.

964
01:01:01,116 --> 01:01:02,547
Thank you.

965
01:01:02,548 --> 01:01:05,587
Have a good day.

966
01:01:05,588 --> 01:01:07,768
Oh wow, thank you.

967
01:01:07,769 --> 01:01:08,936
Where's your sister?

968
01:01:08,937 --> 01:01:10,208
I don't know.

969
01:01:10,209 --> 01:01:12,328
I can't find her.

970
01:01:12,329 --> 01:01:15,329
Hello, thank you,
thank you so much.

971
01:01:33,999 --> 01:01:36,758
Hey, we've been looking
all over for you.

972
01:01:36,759 --> 01:01:38,848
Sorry, I just needed some time.

973
01:01:38,849 --> 01:01:39,878
What's wrong?

974
01:01:39,879 --> 01:01:40,817
It's nothing.

975
01:01:40,818 --> 01:01:42,128
Yeah, it never is.

976
01:01:42,129 --> 01:01:43,049
What's that supposed to mean?

977
01:01:43,050 --> 01:01:45,216
That means I know
you as a stranger,

978
01:01:45,217 --> 01:01:48,427
that we don't live
in the same place.

979
01:01:48,428 --> 01:01:49,915
You know why me.

980
01:01:49,916 --> 01:01:52,046
Everyone's supposed to
move out at some point.

981
01:01:52,047 --> 01:01:55,296
Oh, so we all have to
abandon family at some point.

982
01:01:55,297 --> 01:01:56,247
I didn't abandon you.

983
01:01:56,248 --> 01:01:58,164
Yes you did, you did.

984
01:02:00,187 --> 01:02:03,354
Dad dies, you run
away, mom's a wreck.

985
01:02:05,297 --> 01:02:06,714
So what about me?

986
01:02:07,828 --> 01:02:11,495
I would've loved to
have gone to university.

987
01:02:12,468 --> 01:02:14,218
I just needed time.

988
01:02:15,337 --> 01:02:17,254
Time for me to find me.

989
01:02:19,708 --> 01:02:21,625
You and mom are a team.

990
01:02:22,668 --> 01:02:25,168
And me and dad we were a team.

991
01:02:29,756 --> 01:02:31,256
And now he's gone.

992
01:02:35,343 --> 01:02:36,343
Dad's gone.

993
01:02:54,473 --> 01:02:57,056
We will see him again, right?

994
01:03:03,113 --> 01:03:04,446
Yeah, we will.

995
01:03:07,065 --> 01:03:08,065
I miss him.

996
01:03:09,175 --> 01:03:10,175
I miss you.

997
01:03:14,073 --> 01:03:16,032
I don't miss you.

998
01:03:16,033 --> 01:03:17,700
Yes you do.

999
01:03:21,193 --> 01:03:22,276
I love you.

1000
01:03:24,713 --> 01:03:27,464
I'll tell you what,
when I go back to uni,

1001
01:03:27,465 --> 01:03:29,072
you and mom both come
and stay with me.

1002
01:03:29,073 --> 01:03:30,094
I'll show you around.

1003
01:03:30,095 --> 01:03:31,428
I'd like that.

1004
01:03:35,213 --> 01:03:38,570
♪ As I went down in
the river to pray ♪

1005
01:03:38,571 --> 01:03:39,404
Sis.

1006
01:03:39,405 --> 01:03:40,953
What's going on?

1007
01:03:40,954 --> 01:03:43,492
You said you'd open for me.

1008
01:03:43,493 --> 01:03:47,702
We've got a different idea
for you this morning, come on.

1009
01:03:47,703 --> 01:03:49,582
It's a surprise.

1010
01:03:49,583 --> 01:03:50,423
What about the shop?

1011
01:03:50,424 --> 01:03:51,861
Don't worry.

1012
01:03:51,862 --> 01:03:54,550
♪ Let's go down come on down ♪

1013
01:03:54,551 --> 01:03:57,580
♪ O brothers let's go down ♪

1014
01:03:57,581 --> 01:04:01,182
♪ Down in the river to pray ♪

1015
01:04:01,183 --> 01:04:04,740
♪ As I went down in
the river to pray ♪

1016
01:04:04,741 --> 01:04:06,100
♪ Studying about
that good old way ♪

1017
01:04:06,101 --> 01:04:09,669
I had an idea this
was gonna happen soon.

1018
01:04:09,670 --> 01:04:11,503
She saw that coming.

1019
01:04:12,392 --> 01:04:14,249
♪ Show me the way ♪

1020
01:04:14,250 --> 01:04:15,750
We knew this was
what you wanted.

1021
01:04:15,751 --> 01:04:17,511
♪ O brothers let's go down ♪

1022
01:04:17,512 --> 01:04:20,729
♪ Let's go down, come on down ♪

1023
01:04:20,730 --> 01:04:23,889
♪ O brothers let's go down ♪

1024
01:04:23,890 --> 01:04:27,916
♪ Down in the river to pray ♪

1025
01:04:27,917 --> 01:04:31,159
♪ As I went down in
the river to pray ♪

1026
01:04:31,160 --> 01:04:34,150
♪ Studying about
that good old way ♪

1027
01:04:34,151 --> 01:04:37,340
♪ And who shall wear
the robe and crown ♪

1028
01:04:37,341 --> 01:04:39,991
We thought this would be
a good idea for you, mom.

1029
01:04:39,992 --> 01:04:43,659
The final step for
finding your faith again.

1030
01:04:44,573 --> 01:04:47,282
And you were all in on this?

1031
01:04:47,283 --> 01:04:50,181
♪ O mothers let's go down ♪

1032
01:04:50,182 --> 01:04:51,943
♪ Down in the river to pray ♪

1033
01:04:51,944 --> 01:04:54,343
Okay, let's do this.

1034
01:04:54,344 --> 01:04:55,623
♪ As I went down in
the river to pray ♪

1035
01:04:55,624 --> 01:04:59,457
Destiny, do you accept
the Lord Jesus Christ

1036
01:05:00,805 --> 01:05:03,284
as your Lord and Savior

1037
01:05:03,285 --> 01:05:07,103
acknowledging His
sacrifices for your sin?

1038
01:05:07,104 --> 01:05:09,135
♪ O fathers let's go down ♪

1039
01:05:09,136 --> 01:05:11,219
I do, with all my heart

1040
01:05:15,245 --> 01:05:16,844
and all my soul.

1041
01:05:16,845 --> 01:05:18,863
♪ Down in the river to pray ♪

1042
01:05:18,864 --> 01:05:23,531
By the authority vested
in me I now reaffirm

1043
01:05:25,216 --> 01:05:26,554
your commitment to Him.

1044
01:05:26,555 --> 01:05:30,143
In the name of the Father,
the Son, and the Holy Spirit.

1045
01:05:30,144 --> 01:05:33,612
♪ Good Lord show me the way ♪

1046
01:05:34,445 --> 01:05:36,531
♪ O brothers let's go down ♪

1047
01:05:36,532 --> 01:05:39,900
♪ Let's go down come on down ♪

1048
01:05:39,901 --> 01:05:42,980
♪ O brothers let's go down ♪

1049
01:05:42,981 --> 01:05:46,648
♪ Down in the river to pray ♪

1050
01:06:02,612 --> 01:06:03,445
Hi.

1051
01:06:03,445 --> 01:06:04,421
Hey, how you doing?

1052
01:06:04,422 --> 01:06:05,492
I'm good, how are you?

1053
01:06:05,493 --> 01:06:06,910
Good.

1054
01:06:08,032 --> 01:06:11,151
So how are you feeling
after your rededication?

1055
01:06:11,152 --> 01:06:12,319
I feel good.

1056
01:06:14,480 --> 01:06:17,012
I think it was the
right thing to do.

1057
01:06:17,013 --> 01:06:19,263
I keep thinking about Jamal

1058
01:06:20,413 --> 01:06:24,343
and when he was baptized
and he gave his life.

1059
01:06:24,344 --> 01:06:26,364
So you're following
in his footsteps.

1060
01:06:26,365 --> 01:06:27,198
Yeah.

1061
01:06:27,199 --> 01:06:28,463
So to speak.

1062
01:06:28,464 --> 01:06:33,215
It really brought
the family together.

1063
01:06:33,216 --> 01:06:35,255
Well, that's kind of

1064
01:06:35,256 --> 01:06:37,924
what I wanted to
speak to you about.

1065
01:06:37,925 --> 01:06:39,952
What do you mean?

1066
01:06:39,953 --> 01:06:42,783
Well, you know how you've
said you've felt like

1067
01:06:42,784 --> 01:06:45,724
you've had a hole in your
life since he's been gone.

1068
01:06:45,725 --> 01:06:46,696
Uh-hmm.

1069
01:06:46,697 --> 01:06:49,604
And me too, I mean, I've had
a piece missing in my life

1070
01:06:49,605 --> 01:06:51,355
since losing Susanna.

1071
01:06:53,504 --> 01:06:55,232
Meeting you, Destiny,

1072
01:06:55,233 --> 01:06:58,816
it's the first time in
the last eight years

1073
01:06:59,795 --> 01:07:02,212
that I felt this void filled.

1074
01:07:07,045 --> 01:07:09,975
Do you wanna come outside?

1075
01:07:09,976 --> 01:07:12,059
Let me just finish off.

1076
01:07:16,427 --> 01:07:19,506
You know, I feel
exactly the same way.

1077
01:07:19,507 --> 01:07:24,506
Like, I wish that things
could be like this forever.

1078
01:07:24,507 --> 01:07:29,098
Well, with your permission,
I'm hoping that they can.

1079
01:07:31,164 --> 01:07:32,331
Look, Destiny,

1080
01:07:33,273 --> 01:07:37,356
I loved seeing your journey
to your rededication.

1081
01:07:39,324 --> 01:07:42,402
It's filled me with
so much strength,

1082
01:07:42,403 --> 01:07:46,070
and just renewed
confidence in God's ability

1083
01:07:47,164 --> 01:07:50,963
to make positive changes
not just for our lives,

1084
01:07:50,964 --> 01:07:53,361
but for our future.

1085
01:07:53,362 --> 01:07:55,864
Are you serious, Michael?

1086
01:07:55,865 --> 01:07:59,774
I'm more than
serious, I'm genuine.

1087
01:07:59,775 --> 01:08:03,273
I fell for you the moment you
walked through our church yard

1088
01:08:03,274 --> 01:08:07,357
and I would devote every
waking moment of my life

1089
01:08:09,952 --> 01:08:11,119
to loving you,

1090
01:08:13,053 --> 01:08:14,553
to protecting you,

1091
01:08:15,893 --> 01:08:20,893
and just making sure that you
would never suffer again ever.

1092
01:08:25,541 --> 01:08:27,580
Michael, I thought
the exact same way,

1093
01:08:27,581 --> 01:08:31,791
but I just don't think
I can give you an answer

1094
01:08:31,792 --> 01:08:32,959
not right now.

1095
01:08:35,712 --> 01:08:38,795
Look, I love and I
have faith in you,

1096
01:08:40,621 --> 01:08:42,049
and I love and I
have faith in God,

1097
01:08:42,050 --> 01:08:44,883
but this is happening
just so fast

1098
01:08:45,930 --> 01:08:48,597
and I feel like I need a moment.

1099
01:09:42,332 --> 01:09:43,332
Oh Jamal.

1100
01:09:54,163 --> 01:09:57,663
Dear Lord, sorry, you
took me by surprise.

1101
01:09:58,683 --> 01:10:01,910
I've been told that before.

1102
01:10:01,911 --> 01:10:02,911
Sorry.

1103
01:10:07,523 --> 01:10:10,106
Such a nice place for a rest.

1104
01:10:11,963 --> 01:10:14,296
This is our favorite spot.

1105
01:10:23,144 --> 01:10:24,144
No, wait.

1106
01:10:27,475 --> 01:10:29,058
Is everything okay?

1107
01:10:34,852 --> 01:10:37,435
Everything's fine, thank you.

1108
01:10:42,624 --> 01:10:47,374
I've just had a proposal from
someone I'm so crazy about.

1109
01:10:48,384 --> 01:10:52,023
Wow, that doesn't
sound too bad, does it?

1110
01:10:52,024 --> 01:10:54,994
I've had my fair share
of husband problems.

1111
01:10:54,995 --> 01:10:57,103
Really?

1112
01:10:57,104 --> 01:11:01,874
And what does your husband
think of this situation then?

1113
01:11:01,875 --> 01:11:03,292
He passed away.

1114
01:11:06,774 --> 01:11:08,357
I see.

1115
01:11:10,414 --> 01:11:12,581
I never thought I would,

1116
01:11:15,372 --> 01:11:17,789
or could open my heart again.

1117
01:11:20,963 --> 01:11:23,796
It was just so
painful losing him.

1118
01:11:27,292 --> 01:11:30,792
I know exactly what you mean.

1119
01:11:34,252 --> 01:11:38,002
I myself lost someone
I cared for very deeply

1120
01:11:40,174 --> 01:11:41,507
a few years ago.

1121
01:11:45,505 --> 01:11:47,338
It takes time to heal.

1122
01:11:49,972 --> 01:11:53,639
And I have a feeling I
might see them again.

1123
01:12:00,143 --> 01:12:03,060
I think it made
me lose my faith,

1124
01:12:05,084 --> 01:12:08,834
but I feel like I'm more
on solid ground now,

1125
01:12:11,033 --> 01:12:12,950
but it's still so hard.

1126
01:12:20,661 --> 01:12:23,411
Faith is like a glass of water.

1127
01:12:27,263 --> 01:12:31,382
When you're younger
the glass is little,

1128
01:12:31,383 --> 01:12:34,300
so it's more empty,
easier to fill,

1129
01:12:39,671 --> 01:12:43,338
but as you get older,
the glass gets bigger.

1130
01:12:46,461 --> 01:12:51,128
The same amount of liquid
will no longer fill the glass.

1131
01:12:52,164 --> 01:12:54,581
The glass has to be refilled.

1132
01:12:58,204 --> 01:13:01,803
Why does that sound so familiar?

1133
01:13:01,804 --> 01:13:03,451
You watch too many movies.

1134
01:13:03,452 --> 01:13:05,709
That's not me, that's
my son and my brother.

1135
01:13:05,710 --> 01:13:06,543
Uh-hmm.

1136
01:13:06,544 --> 01:13:08,550
Thank you very much.

1137
01:13:08,551 --> 01:13:10,801
The message still stands.

1138
01:13:19,391 --> 01:13:23,361
I know how much you
suffered, Destiny.

1139
01:13:23,362 --> 01:13:26,731
Faith can be a trying
thing, can't it?

1140
01:13:26,732 --> 01:13:27,732
I know.

1141
01:13:29,732 --> 01:13:32,232
You can feel so alone at times

1142
01:13:34,812 --> 01:13:37,645
like there's no
one there for you.

1143
01:13:41,041 --> 01:13:43,541
Your family are there for you.

1144
01:13:47,200 --> 01:13:49,470
Do you remember that?

1145
01:13:49,471 --> 01:13:51,304
When things get tough,

1146
01:13:52,681 --> 01:13:57,514
they'll never leave you just
like you'll never leave them.

1147
01:14:12,600 --> 01:14:15,572
Wait, how did you know my name?

1148
01:14:48,549 --> 01:14:52,716
Hi, I think I may
have forgot my keys.

1149
01:14:57,109 --> 01:14:59,797
Michael, I'm so sorry.

1150
01:14:59,798 --> 01:15:02,599
There's nothing
to apologize for.

1151
01:15:02,600 --> 01:15:03,581
Running off like that

1152
01:15:03,582 --> 01:15:08,498
when you were expecting a
response from me, it wasn't fair.

1153
01:15:11,078 --> 01:15:12,468
I would never wish myself on you

1154
01:15:12,469 --> 01:15:15,529
if you felt marrying me
wasn't right for you.

1155
01:15:15,530 --> 01:15:19,117
I could never turn down
someone who has helped me

1156
01:15:19,118 --> 01:15:23,868
to completely turn my life
around in the last few months.

1157
01:15:26,120 --> 01:15:28,068
You mean that?

1158
01:15:28,069 --> 01:15:29,069
Yes.

1159
01:15:31,520 --> 01:15:36,449
Whenever you're near me, you
take away my unhappiness.

1160
01:15:36,450 --> 01:15:39,783
You've helped me to
find my faith again.

1161
01:15:41,621 --> 01:15:44,809
I didn't realize I was so lost.

1162
01:15:44,810 --> 01:15:46,348
It's the grace of God.

1163
01:15:46,349 --> 01:15:48,588
I feel like I'm standing
on firmer ground,

1164
01:15:48,589 --> 01:15:51,922
and you've helped me
to understand that.

1165
01:15:53,770 --> 01:15:55,717
Through the power of Christ,

1166
01:15:55,718 --> 01:16:00,051
I can take that firmer
ground with me wherever I go.

1167
01:16:02,501 --> 01:16:04,418
I'm not afraid anymore.

1168
01:16:07,301 --> 01:16:11,968
If you let me trust God with
you every step of the way

1169
01:16:14,650 --> 01:16:17,729
I would consider it
the honor of my life

1170
01:16:17,730 --> 01:16:19,717
to make you my wife
and I would love you.

1171
01:16:19,718 --> 01:16:22,669
Yes, Michael, I
will be your wife.

1172
01:17:29,494 --> 01:17:32,944
I guess I won't knock
your ideas in the future.

1173
01:17:32,945 --> 01:17:36,445
I do love it when a
plan comes together.

1174
01:17:41,636 --> 01:17:44,254
Do you, Michael Johnson,

1175
01:17:44,255 --> 01:17:47,865
take this woman to be
your lawfully wedded wife?

1176
01:17:47,866 --> 01:17:49,366
I definitely do.

1177
01:17:50,706 --> 01:17:54,041
And do you Destiny
Jackson Brown,

1178
01:17:54,042 --> 01:17:57,260
take this man to be your
lawfully wedded husband?

1179
01:17:57,261 --> 01:17:58,261
I do.

1180
01:18:20,938 --> 01:18:23,977
I now pronounce
you man and wife.

1181
01:18:23,978 --> 01:18:26,228
You may now kiss the bride.

1181
01:18:27,305 --> 01:19:27,607
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